Good Gossip? Bad Gossip?

It seem that we gossip hell loads. I don't remember any convo i had that did not involve any gossiping. So who gossips more? men or women? It's said that we're equally 38! from what i know, high school peeps, we gossip mostly about our friends. and how often do we compliment our friends when we gossip about them? we criticize the sht out of them. but that's normal, we can't control it, we want to make our listeners happy. but little that we know how much our criticizes can effect our listeners.
if their bad gossipers, they might totally change their original impression about the "victim" ,
thanks of your effective gossiping skills. They'll over think and twist their little brains until they can think the worst things about the person and literally HATE them.
thats the worst scenario though. and unless someone affective enough tells him that its totally fine to not hate him and to accept for who he is, more sht happens.
FARK
I can't believe I'm actually pointing someone out :x
SOREHHHHH~ I might not be a such a good gossiper myself and i do like gossiping, but i dont HATE people!
what the hell did i just wrote o.o