Gatherings and Friends

I was invited to a party recently. My best friends cute younger sister invited me personally! Both surprised and honored, I attended happily as I get to see my good friend and The most humble friend i ever had, Jun Szen! Something tells me that I want to have a long chat with him whenever I get these kind of chances to meet up with him, but after some recent events, it's hard to talk to him like we used to, there's like a barrier between us, I guess it's normal since we're in different schools now :/ There are less mutual topics, mostly abt grades and reminiscing abt our primary years. His current friends were invited of course. I tried blending in with them, it was AWKWARD!  I was in at disadvantage as I was alone and they had their gang. Everytime I say something, they'd be like yea~ then they'd look at each other, eye communicating about how weird they think I am. So this year, I decided to just ignore them. And everything went well! Since my gang was here this year, it was abit better. The food was awesome as always, LASAGNA! How often do you get to eat home made lasagna? For me it's just here! ( I should learn how to make my own :/) We played hotel 626. The fear factor was eliminated as we played it together with a bunch of friends. And the one clicking was a GIRL! STEADY! We literally used up an hour? Now I can tell everyone I tried the game and brag abt how NOT scary is it :P After getting own in a match of DotA, Merv drove us home. like around 1 a.m.
I WASNT SCREWED! how awesome! Can't wait for the next gathering :)

Good Gossip? Bad Gossip?

It seem that we gossip hell loads. I don't remember any convo i had that did not involve any gossiping. So who gossips more? men or women? It's said that we're equally 38! from what i know, high school peeps, we gossip mostly about our friends. and how often do we compliment our friends when we gossip about them? we criticize the sht out of them. but that's normal, we can't control it, we want to make our listeners happy. but little that we know how much our criticizes can effect our listeners.
if their bad gossipers, they might totally change their original impression about the "victim" ,
thanks of your effective gossiping skills. They'll over think and twist their little brains until they can think the worst things about the person and literally HATE them.
thats the worst scenario though. and unless someone affective enough tells him that its totally fine to not hate him and to accept for who he is, more sht happens.
FARK
I can't believe I'm actually pointing someone out :x
SOREHHHHH~ I might not be a such a good gossiper myself and i do like gossiping, but i dont HATE people!
what the hell did i just wrote o.o